A somatic self-reflection

When something feels unsafe,
what does your body reach for?

Four survival responses — fight, flight, freeze, fawn — quietly shape how you react. This is a gentle, private look at yours. There are no right answers; just notice what feels true.

8–12 minutes Private to you No right answers

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What to expect

Real moments, real sensations. Rate what your nervous system actually does — not what you think is healthy.

Trust your first read. Items are shuffled, so your gut reaction is the data.

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The 4F framework

Under threat, the nervous system reaches for one of four survival responses. Each runs on a continuum from a healthy form to a stuck one.

Fight
Confront the threat directly
Assertive ↔ Bullying
Flight
Escape into movement or action
Efficient ↔ Driven
Freeze
Shut down or hide from threat
Peaceful ↔ Catatonic
Fawn
Appease to reduce the threat
Helpful ↔ Servitude

Ready when you are.

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A self-reflection aid, not a clinical diagnosis.

4F Self-Assessment
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4F Trauma Type — Somatic Self-Description

Your trauma type is

This may stir a few things up. There's no rush — read it at your own pace, and know that none of it is a verdict on who you are.

Whatever this brought up, you don't have to sit with it alone. In the US you can call or text 988 (the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline); anywhere else, find a helpline at findahelpline.com.